As the old saying goes: "the world is not the best, the constant ten in seven or eight". Person's life, there are times when frustrated and confused. Career setbacks, family conflict, interpersonal conflict and so on are often encountered. In the work, we are immutable and frozen or lack of challenge, or has not promoted to a better job and be indignant; in one's personal life, we feel upset, depressed or Don't Get Around Much Anymore: This is what we call the dilemma. When faced with difficulties, we find, the growth path of suddenly be blocked, we must in the new level to choose a new starting point to continue. How to face the difficulties, and finally out of the difficulty, it is this book's gifts. This book "six stages dilemma cycle" as the red line throughout the book, tells the story of constantly find new meaning in life and life direction from the plight of the strategy. In this book, you can see, the dilemma of how to like the Greek god Hermes, as a herald role in our life, let us know, we must change. Crisis and difficulties are caused a huge blow to us, but on the other hand, new horizons will appear. No action, our life will never change. Make a specific choice, change life, this is the solution predicament. Dear friend, might as well put the book as your closest friend and mentor, let it help you find a way out in the low life or labyrinth of life, accompany you to a more colorful future!
Everyone will experience psychological distress. Due to the life the next station the sail where uncertainty may appear in some foreseeable time, such as unemployment, romance, and become "as a child in University empty nest", or a long recognized you, love you, and appreciate your people died when the. Sometimes, we will also accidentaly across and psychological dilemma: as we originally thought to the pursuit of life - long career suddenly become Don't Get Around Much Anymore, or our desire for an intimate relationship, but couldn't find the right partner. Whether or not the psychological difficulties foreseeable, will make people feel depressed, frustrated and discouraged. When the work, be in the blues, no sense of challenge. Person's life, always feel anxious, lifeless, boring. You know how to change a few things: you want to contribute in the work, acts as a positive manufacturing angry roles in the home, eager to enjoy the life. Difficulties are disturbing, but we have to experience difficulties: stand stranded in the bottom of your life, we can seize the opportunities, define a new scene for their own occupation, personal life. Psychologist Timothy Butler engaged in the research of occupation more than 20 years of development in this book introduces constantly find new meaning in life from the difficulties, to find a new direction in life strategy. The book covers the different aspects of life, from work to life, from colleagues to get along with their families. Reading this book, you will learn to discern whether: ◆ into "psychology predicament", and can make the dilemma as to really change the springboard ◆ can activate the new vision of life practice we can distinguish what kind of activities, awards and what kind of people, culture and community organizations can make you get the satisfaction we know how to make the right choices, make the dream depicts many vivid personal examples as reality in the book, the protagonist has successfully out of the predicament, live a life filled with hope. This book can let people in trouble be snatched from the jaws of death, to continue toward meaningful future. For those who can not find direction in the labyrinth of life of the people, it is a practical and reliable map.
Timothy Butler is a senior fellow and director of the Harvard Business School, is the school of occupation development plan. In the past 25 years, he has been a great psychologist, psychotherapist and occupation development consultant. Dr. Butler's research mainly focuses on how people find meaningful work. His work has been translated into many languages in global sales, but his research
The first part of the first chapter thanks dilemma facing the crisis of second chapters get into trouble and self doubt, the third chapter open your heart, release their fourth chapter gets new understanding the second part vision fifth chapter deep interest in carpet pattern sixth chapter first learn to let groups and achievements of power, passion. The seventh chapter eighth chapter three interleaved mode insight painted beach pattern third part out in the ninth chapter to the tenth chapter of life predicament action on the edge of appendix A to interpret the reference appendix B distress and depression with a note of our journey of the appendix C per work test score notes on the
Some aspects of the myth as the human nature and human development made a subtle description. Metaphor Black Sun told us, when things let a person feel the darkness, seemingly chaotic and uncertain, slow down, keep patience is very important. Don't escape, to experience, to meet the difficult moments. To focus, adhere to in the end, we will find, black the flow of energy from the sun and warm daytime the sun. Before the creation of poetry, the creation of corporate, to make a sculpture or transform the job role, we need deep thinking and inner focus, this procedure can be used to describe the black sun. In these cases, we are not "in the sun" or "sunny guidelines", instead, we should arrive in a new situation, rely more on our inner intuition. Successful artists and businessmen also need to learn how to deal with the deadlock in the dark, they must adhere to, until the new power from the deadlock and dark experience. Of course, the key problem is our fear of the dark. We want to live in the sunshine, walking on a familiar road, do what will make us happy. We need the feeling of stability, arrange their life, also from the pain. We hope things stay the same, never going to change the current mode of life. That'll put us on the unknown. The so-called unknown, refers to the strange things on the inherent concept, our self planning,And our life rule understanding, is the "dark". Because we are afraid of the dark, so we will be trapped in the deadlock. In the situation with clinical dilemma in dark on the depression. (it is necessary to make the distinction between the two, see Appendix B). Sometimes, we will not consciously put dilemma as a failure, but not to get more creative process. In the heart, we will send the dilemma of experience as a personal ability is insufficient evidence, as the value of self judgment, which is a risk factor. The dilemma is annoying, we may need a friend, coach or Counselor's help, they need to help us understand we are faced with the surrounding environment, they need to remind ourselves that is in a difficult period, but the dilemma itself is not our personal values reflect. The plight of Marcy after graduation regularly come to me, she is not last semester as if worn like depression. However, her life has not become rich and fulfilling. She realized that something is lost, and because her life is always in a hurry, she gives people the feeling is always full of confidence and vitality, so now she this feeling is more and more obvious. Marcy looking for a sales job, which is unusual, because Sloan school graduates mostly choose professional service company, or those in need of MBA strategic skills of enterprises. This work let Marcy feel ambivalent. This is a small company, the main business is to provide professional staff in the short term, most of which are information technology professionals. She was running around, analysis of potential customers in the office computer software and information needs. Marcy is the sales team only a woman, but this is not new to her, nor the challenge. In fact, she is able to integrate into the team, and enjoy "as a member of" feeling happy, friendly atmosphere here let her remember and university partners and her brothers get along with time. The problem is, work content and not let her excitement, she is not sure this job can let her ambition, desire to become learning during the management at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology's role. I know the most creative people in trouble to learn natural. Not that they like to slow down or the like at a stalemate, like us, they want to start a new career or adventure. However, do not use their energy to avoid the dilemma of experience; more importantly, they do not fear the experience. They develop their own capacity, to pass through the dark and heavy period as to promote creativity and change his a process. They can say: "this kind of condition and psychological state is I need to pass through, they are not my own characteristics." But most of us and Marcy, do not know how to face the black sun, do not feel the hidden crisis and predicament of energy. We put these energy left it all to the poet, painter and composer. (see "diving set: feel the predicament". @##@) No matter you are in distress in a job or occupation, or trapped in a relationship or lifestyle choices, this book Timothy, Dr. Butler will provide a great help to you. Butler master of psychology, philosophy and for many years he worked as a psychologist working experience of the essence, the essence is the main body of the book. He was to integrate them, transform them into can help you out of trouble is feasible, practical. This is the only path to true mature. -- managing director syndrome brigade partners James Wolderup person in charge of the Harvard Business School Admissions strongly recommended, I read "out of psychological difficulties" this book, it reminds me of many people every year I touch, these people seem to be faced with countless opportunities, but in the real choice is lack of experience. I had always considered to be calm, impartial experts, until exposure to this book, I truly understand their. I found the "troubled" doesn't mean to be put in a quandary, and "out" also represented not just took some attract sb.'s attention posture. This is a very useful book, I always put it in the most conspicuous position on the shelf, in order to encourage those who seek knowledge with passion for MIBA students. A problem -- the Book Harvard Business School Admissions Officer Deirdre Leopoldbattle wrote touched many of us encounter. His case reports, practice and experience will provide continued tool for those job seekers, occupation training division and other people. -- Kellogg occupation career management center assistant principal and director Roxanne Hori everyone will experience difficulties, in the same occupation career, in life also sun so often. In "out of psychological difficulties" in one book, Timothy Butler in the occupation and decision-making provide many effective concepts and tools for us, guide us in the face of personal difficulties successfully complete the entire process to take effective action from the awareness of the plight of. Butler with the consulting and coaching experience for many years writing this book will be essential good books for the successful people hand in hard. -- Becton Dickinson talent management company and the Chief Learning Officer Edward Betov
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